My story after accident->Hard to beileve but true...Just hold on friends :)

Meet me and you will come to know the reality behind this.So right here just spend some moments with me :)

Well,it makes me feel really excited to describe and let you all know how my life took a U-turn after facing accident on 25 dec,2009.And pretty much to my amazement i am gonna remember this day when i get this opportunity to write the story of me after accident.And I am really on my toes and prepared to this day i.e 3rd March,2010(nearly 3 months after accident :)

Let me first tell you about how accident happened and its afterward consequences that we all beared.Me and my friends came after having watched the movie "3-idiots"(actually that day the movie was released) and lunch.We were all having fun and enjoying time-pass gossiping with each other about story and acting in "3idiots".God knows,my dear friends he made a similar story like that after accident.Well,let me come to the point now.So in the midway,some dog was running,seeing that driver also increased his auto speed.What could happen?The dog took a left to right turn on the road and the auto's front tyre got hit with the dog.After that,the auto took 4 complete turns.As regarding me,I was sitting beside the driver and was thrown outside immediately the auto got hit.I was lying on the road somewhere and felt i have lost control of my left leg.X-ray reports revealed that i had a compound fracture on my left leg thigh portion.

Thank God,I survived that experience due to much needed timely support of my dear friends and family.That's how it goes.I was well operated in time and the doctor advised me to use a walker.

Well,much to my concern during that period,placements were going on.But that didn't create any problems for me as i managed somehow to sit in nearly all company's interviews.

Now comes the after-effects having faced and getting through with tough experiences of accident.The first change i noticed in myself was that i became bold enough to deal with any situation whatsoever.I was kep't in rest house for nearly 20 days.Inspite of living nearly alone,I developed myself into a character much beyond the imagination of what others can think.I started singing songs in an open-hearted manner in front of the crowd.I really enjoyed that activity,started talking with girls "Hey dear no fear when i am here".This was the tag line that was in my mind while talking with girls.

Everything seem enjoyable and I was feeling the excitement of catching new things in my life.So those were the best moments of my life that i will never forget,pretty touched with how the things went on.And i never look back,I kep't on doing in which i felt the best.So it was kinda learning period for me,as i was facing life in an enjoyable way :)

I seem to take interest in every activity.Really "Doing something that you haven't had experience in the past lends you fun and excitement indeed".And that was the period in which i started to develop and carry on my thinking.You know the best part was "Everything that i learned was through practical experiences".

Well i can continue this story but don't want to as it will turn into a novel because I am right now so much into this.I want to continue this element of curiousity in myself and the stage has been set for me to move forward to know new things in life.I should carry on this zeal that has come from somewhere "Even i really don't know the hidden truth behind this" forever.And i want to use this opportunity to thanks again for all those who stood up for support during tough times and for all those changes which has made me myself which could not have been possible without them.DATS IT :)

Thank you all for having spend time with me :)

Beauty of hardwork :)

Today an interesting thought occured to my mind,thought it would be nice to share that with you all..Why is that some countries are lacking when we comapare them with other countries in certain fields and areas!!.Take the case of a country which stands nowhere near to others in a field, as lots of work has been going on in the latter since many decades but we can call the former a Newbie that has not started its step..The same thing can be understood in a more deeper sense when we talk of technologies...so if we consider country as an entity and compare it with work done by others in that field,the difference can be easily gauged.That difference speaks volumes about work that the country has been undergoing by its manpower since so many years.When we talk of Japan,it has been able to recover very fast after the crises that it suffered due to world wars and nuclear bomb lasts and ironically stands to be one of the most powerful economies in the world.So its smart hard work that makes us what we are. In case of man,i.e a small entity the fact can be applied in any context whether we come down to lower levels.So its not just about talent ,there is also work and hidden desire that makes it possible to achieve higher levels.
HARD WORK AND DEDICATION PAYS MAN :)

Tribute to Sachin tendulkar

Finally SACHIN TENDULKAR did what no one has ever expected from him at this high-age time..HATS OFF TO THIS GREATEST MAN FOR BREAKING THE ELUSIVE 200 RUN BARRIER!!!

Plz dude dont let dis happen...

When my love would get married with other person...i should not care bcz it's her decision..well what i will be left to do is go into her marriage.....and sing dis song for her :).Trying to smile but its diffcult darling ....:(

When I look into your eyes
I can see a love restrained
But darlin' when I hold you
Don't you know I feel the same
'Cause nothin' lasts forever
And we both know hearts can change
And it's hard to hold a candle
In the cold November rain
We've been through this such a long long time
Just tryin' to kill the pain
But lovers always come and lovers always go
An no one's really sure who's lettin' go today
Walking away
If we could take the time to lay it on the line
I could rest my head
Just knowin' that you were mine
All mine
So if you want to love me
then darlin' don't refrain
Or I'll just end up walkin'
In the cold November rain

Do you need some time...on your own
Do you need some time...all alone
Everybody needs some time...on their own
Don't you know you need some time...all alone
I know it's hard to keep an open heart
When even friends seem out to harm you
But if you could heal a broken heart
Wouldn't time be out to charm you

Sometimes I need some time...on my
own Sometimes I need some time...all alone
Everybody needs some time...on their own
Don't you know you need some time...all alone

And when your fears subside
And shadows still remain, ohhh yeahhh
I know that you can love me
When there's no one left to blame
So never mind the darkness
We still can find a way
'Cause nothin' lasts forever
Even cold November rain


Don't ya think that you need somebody
Don't ya think that you need someone
Everybody needs somebody
You're not the only one
You're not the only one

Kota life...full of tips with turn arounds...:)

Hey friends,i thought that i could share with you my life in KOTA,it was in my mind when i came to kota that i have to make something big....Here it was cracking IIT_JEE.I did foundation when i was in 11th from resonance..I got first first batch there initially.I went on with fire...but was not able to keep it litting..so it was a period of ups and downs.My starting experiences in kota was not that gud...when we talk of studies.I found no enviroment is conducive for me to keep on going with studies.So i kep't on changing room at certain periods,well it was difficult to settle my self at one place.I came down the line,and my batch was changed to 2nd...then i felt that dis tme i need to take my work seriously otherwise it would be a blunder.So fortunately i found a room where i can study peacefully without any distractions from outside...well i try to interact less with people around me and kep't myself completely isolated...i wz doing this to get myself in first batch and continue my fire burning till i crack a gud rank in JEE.But while moving on,i was attacked with a problem of breathing which continue on till whole of the foundation studies and went on from there afterwards with no solution to cure...So rest of the period during foundation i kept myself light with studies and was abl to maintain the first batch.This is all about my foundation :)

Now comes my past Kota experiences during target course when i wz in 12th.I had to change my location as our classes were shifted in another building far away from previous one.I was fortunate enough to get 1st batch so i thought i will continue to give up my best..but who knows the future man..i was with my father to arrange for some room.I found it okay..so i made up my mind to be at this place in my entire period till i face IIT-JEE.But i wz not able to live there bcz due to landlord's nature buzzing me again and again wthout any reasons.I wz fed up and changed room.Till now i wz not at all open to face another life,but soon i realized there is a life which exists where you enjoy being with friends.In my new room i faced those experiences....but other people used to tk fun...and i wz taking it otherwise that they are deviating me from my studies....So it wz difficult to live life in friends circle...nd there i came to know that there are some students who study so less and still get what they want.But my studies was not going well so i had to change up my mind and shift myself to another location one more time.There also i faced some new students but it wz a period of learning for me bcz i have had those experiences in my past now. I wz trying to concentrate on my studies but found myself in the middle of nowhere...between friends and studies...But it wz not like that..as if i have to select one path where to move on....like in past if something went against my will i changed my room...So i kept my cool and was trying to learn life as well as study....But the real secret is i wz also in love with that girl so no point to blame my friends....well they strted liking me as a person no matter how i look,or how stupid im,they enjoyed time with me.I also strted feeling little bit close,bt i wz really confused:).Finally after spending 6 months i thought now the exm is near and i felt i need to leave rest all things apart and give my full time to studies.So i changed my room,thereafter and in new room all guyz kept on visiting bcz now i wz closer,friendship wise to all of thm...:).

But after having such kind of experiences who could expect to get through...So i wz not slected in screening and i felt neglected and ashamed of myself what i have done...my friends did well....So something to learn from them that they could manage both life and still can cut out a way...Nice yaar :)>ALL of them except me were selected in screening and were ready to move with full-fledge to crack mains.But also there is alwz a luck factor when u face such competitive exms conducted at such a wider scale.Their expections were high but finally when results came i called them ,i thought all of them may be selected considering how well their paper went and their expectations level.But unfortunaltely,they were not....only one person in my entire friends circle was able to make it in IIT-JEE. So there wasn't any option left other that to repeat.

Now came the drop year for IIT-JEE.I changed my institute from resonace to bansal,and my friends opted to stay in the same institute.So i wz with one one my friends,Harsh looking for some room.I found a decent room near to my institute,prize wz high bt didn't care bcz i had made up my mind.So i stayed there...my life wz normal like that...till 7 months....i wz not finding anything interesting to do...nothing seems driving me for future.Now i strted to think to improve my life for the better.So firstly i improved my diet...slowly slowly....and try to change up my dressing sence.I wz feeling okay after applying this on myslef and feeling light there is something very interesting abt life if you strt thinking and appying it in real life.So i started to think how can i make life more sexy.....Now i strted to do some exercises during morning...i continied doing it for 15 days....now my passion changed my entire personality.I then met with my friends...they cherished and complemented me that u have changed a lot...but one of my friend that "bas ek aur chij ki kami hain....tum apni hair style change kar lo"...and other friends supported his saying...well i also thought that smthing can be done :).So i strt to work on this.....i changed my shampoo and hair oil :).and changed my hair-style...I changed the way i look :).I wz now feeling really very confident of how much change i hv brough myself in...Some day i wz about to leave my room....i came outside and locked the room...one of my friend who who wz also staying in some room of house said "aj bahar mat nikal jaana,kisi ladki ki nazar pad gayi tum pe....to wo paggal ho jayegi".Well i have had such kind of experiences when i get outside.....Every girl that pass through....alwz looks at me...and i also pass my looks at her...Well smthing more to disclose i had a sxxy frameless spec who i can say wz all the reasons of my personality...it wz diff. lookwise and all who saw me asked "kaha se liya ye sxxy spec":).So tat wz a turn around :)

One more experience i do love to share with all u,some day my friends told me to sing a song,i said i can bcz i had developed my taste for music during that time,i told them that i can sing the song of titanic "My heart will go on" for my love :).So they told me "jarur".So i kept quite for a moment thinking abt her and then entirely swept away with my feelings for her and lines came from my heart....."Every night in my dreams i see u i feel u that's how i know u go on.....so on" ...After i ended up playing that song...i asked friends they all were looking at me....like they were amazed...i told them wht happened...they said how nice u sing...i will give u 10/10.i said well i dont sing songs but if i can get such credits from u all....then its really smthig for me to cheer up :)
At the time of giving the MAINS paper...my uncle saw me...and told my father..."apne ladke ko JOHN ABRAHIM bana rakha hain"...my father strted laughing...and feeling proud that's what i felt...I had got similar complements from other people too during that period...."if u keep side locks....u will look like akshay kumar"....:).And my friend,Ashu said one day when i wz studying...he said "smart lagta hain tu....kisi ladki ko propose kiya hain tune ajtak"...i said no...den he said..."chutiya hain tu"...Well i thought now is the time to propose my girl,my love.So i felt satisfied with myself.

Well i gave my MAINS paper and d day went fine....I kept my cool bcz this wz the last opportunity for me to get a gud college...Now i wz attacked with jondis 10 days before the exm date "AIEEE"...I called my father but emergency was needed..So my father called one uncle in his relation.He immediately came by car and took me to his house.There after unti ,my uncle's wife told me how did it happen,i told her i dont know it wz a sudden experience.I wz in hospital day after...when my father and servant came to look after me...along with uncle and unti who were there alwz to help me recover in time..THANKS TO UNCLE AND UNTI FR REALLY PROVIDING ME WITH TIMELY CARE AND FACILITIES...It wz like a mother touch to me seriously.Well fortunaly i survived the experience of jondis day before my exms.I came to my room and meet all frnds staying in house..They were too happy to see me finally..but now that d time has come to finally go and leave kota,such kind of memorable experiences i will alwz keep up with me..I wz cool...and made stradegy how to increase my speed and accuracy in paper...i followed this in my AIEEE exm..and finally it wz my day :)

That's all from my side....
Hope to share some similar experiences with u all...if i recall :)

Moving forward with head high :)

Yesterday’s gone
No use dwelling on the past
Its time to make new memories
However long they may last
Yesterday’s gone
It will never be back again
Forget all your fights and quarrels
Let go of your sorrow and pain
Yesterday’s gone
Today is all you’ve got Try your best if you don’t succeed
Tomorrow give it another shot
Yesterday’s gone
Start fresh today
Forget about the betrayal and gossip
Cause one day they will pay
Yesterday’s gone
There is nothing you can say or do
Maybe it was not meant to be
Maybe he’ll come crawling back to you
Yesterday’s gone
Cause afterall its all said and done
Build your future and move on
Do it all while having fun

Achieving destination :)

How to achieve destination no matter what kind and far it is?

Feel its love.Now let me explain it by taking a very simple example.

Suppose you love some girl and it's always I love u not u love me.So if tht girl is not with u,you can live by feeling its love by imagining or let's say dreaming bout life with her.

The destination is not near u man,but feel that you are with it.

Like in love,you try every possible way to make her feel what you feel about her.Likewise,to achieve destination,feel that thing is with u and that is what defines desire and if start loving that then give energy with full joy and enthusiasm to get that and if u r highly confident then that will follow u and will be yours in near future :)